
Attachment is more than a childhood experience. It is the foundation of how we come to know ourselves, connect with others, and navigate the world around us.
Specializing in attachment as a cornerstone of complex trauma (C-PTSD) recovery, Ky's work explores the transformative power of human connection in fostering healing, a sense of belonging, and holistic well-being. While attachment is often understood through the lens of early childhood relationships, its influence extends far beyond our earliest caregivers. Our sense of self is continually shaped by the relationships we navigate, the cultural norms we internalize, the social systems we inhabit, and the expectations placed upon us throughout our lives. From the pressure to be productive to the pursuit of belonging, attachment is woven into nearly every aspect of the human experience.
Grounded in a commitment to uplift historically marginalized communities, Ky brings an attachment-informed, trauma-responsive, and liberation-centered perspective to understanding the relational systems that shape our lives. We do not exist in isolation. We exist in systems. Within ourselves, our families, our relationships, our communities, and our broader social structures, we encounter patterns that can perpetuate old wounds - or create opportunities for profound healing and transformation.
Understanding attachment invites us to look beyond what happened to us and begin exploring how those experiences continue to shape what we believe about ourselves, what we expect from others, and what we imagine is possible.
Attachment is everywhere. Once you begin to see it, you may never see the world quite the same way again.
A navigating point is an internal or relational point of orientation that helps us remain connected with who we are, what matters most to us, and where we want to go in circumstance or life. In the context of our healing journeys, distress, trauma, and hardship can render navigating points more challenging to access.
Whether you are seeking psychotherapy or educational services, Ky aids people in identifying navigating points that provide a stable understanding of what it is we are moving toward, allowing us to consider whether the path we are taking aligns with that destination. In attachment-guided care, navigating points help us clarify relationships, experiences, and outcomes we hope to foster. Rather than simply responding in the moment, we can work collaboratively to answer the question: “Where are we trying to go and what are the navigating points that will help us get there?”
Ky offers individual, relationship (couples +), and family therapy for clients located in Colorado, Illinois, Washington, and Oregon with a particular focus on complex developmental (childhood and beyond) trauma recovery. Ky is committed to creating warm, compassionate, and nonjudgmental spaces where clients feel safe to be open and vulnerable. Known for being an attentive and reflective listener, Ky communicates with clarity, empathy, and honesty.
Ky's primary specialization is attachment, which surprisingly spans several domains of mental health including relationship dynamics, traits associated with personality disorders, neurodivergence, and the multi-directionality of family systems. Within this context, Ky offers substantial family systems support, anxiety/OCD management, tools for executive function, and processing LGBTQIA+ experiences.
Welcome to Ky’s education and training program, NAVIGATING POINTS, designed to equip professionals who work with clients impacted by complex trauma. Even with the best intentions, our actions don’t always create the outcomes we hope for. Ky offers compassionate, skilled guidance to help professionals bridge that gap, fostering the knowledge, tools, and self-awareness needed to align impact with intent.
Ky values collaborating with fellow professionals to explore best practices for providing attachment-centered care, particularly when working with clients who present traits associated with personality disorders such as borderline, dependent, and narcissistic. Recognizing that access to consultation can be a financial challenge, Ky has secured funding to cover fees when needed—ensuring that all professionals can receive the essential support crucial for their work.

Ky served as Chair of the 2024–2025 NASW-Illinois Legislative Committee, reflecting their longstanding commitment to advancing social justice through meaningful social policy change. Their work is grounded in the recognition that political and legislative decisions profoundly shape clinical social work practice, particularly for practitioners addressing the psychological and relational impacts of systemic and social conditions.
In this leadership role, Ky guided the committee in advising and supporting the Director of Legislative Affairs in developing, advancing, and opposing state policy positions during the Illinois legislative session. The committee also collaborated with NASW-Illinois to develop impactful policy statements and advocacy initiatives, strengthening the representation of social workers’ expertise, perspectives, and professional interests in the policymaking process.
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